For the Guy with Kids and a WW4

[hopeful4her]

lis,

That is another thing. The conversation. I am quiet. I was the type that when WW asks me how my day was, I said, "Good, but it was busy/slow." No details. I didn't know that she wanted details.

Also, we live out kind of in a rural area. A 12 minute drive through the Texas Hill Country. Beautiful. I use it to meditate. I am quiet on the drive. WW wanted me to talk to her. She hates the silence. I just enjoy the drive. I have learned that I have to talk about stuff on this drive.

Or when we go out. Over dinner. Like we didn't know what to talk about if we weren't talking about the kids.

I told WW that if she wanted to talk so bad, why not talk to ME. Start convo with ME. Why does it always have to be me to talk to her. She calls me boring. If I'm so boring, how come you don't have sh** to talk about. She is just as boring as I am. I just never told her. OM is exciting because he is different. Thats all. Just different. She says he is a nice guy. Just like me. If we were not in this sitch, we would probably be friends, she said once.

Please.

But she is right and I'm wrong.

Right?