For the Guy with Kids and a WW4

[hopeful4her]

wdid, you are always relevant.

I guess I miswrote. You were going to share custody, but let your son live with husband. Is that correct?

WW has selective memory. It's like she just didn't feel loved. I think a lot to do with love languages. I think that acts of service and me getting out and doing things, but I think that she is so set in her mind right now, that it just doesn't seem to matter. OM is younger, hunter and fisher kind of guy, writes like he has a 10th grade education, and smaller than I. I am a big guy. Not in a slob way, but big. Could lose another 30 pounds. WW is not a small woman herself. Big but pretty proportioned. I am the same. Fairly proportioned. I got both of my parents. Dad was an athlete and very muscular. Mom is fat. I have always been a big guy. I was also an athlete. OM is handsome, I suppose. We seem to be complete opposites. Polar opposites. He makes her laugh. Again, something I have been working on. I have a different type of sense of humor than WW. I am very dry. Trying to let my sillyness out.

Sometimes feel like I just can't compete.