Have you also been one to suppress your feeling in conversations with her? You and I seem so much alike. My 180 is trying to talk about feelings (and it needs to be about real stuff - I caught chit for talking about fluff...) and be more assertive in my thoughts, but not so darn controlling. Yes, I have gotten the same ALL CONTROLLING and ALWAYS HAVE BEEN.
Stay strong and come back often - we can figure this out together!
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
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No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
