Thanks Dance,

That is where I am in so many ways. The company I work for is going under, my businesses are not able to support us so I am looking for work. Most likely, we will have to leave Colorado to find a new job. Add that on top of everything else!

Your thoughts about making a choice, trying and trying again are very encouraging! I have always hated to make mistakes. That is something I am working on for myself and my kids.

I do have one other question, should I try to seduce my wife?

NTE