Forgive me if my whole post was not relevant....I'm jacked up on vicadin (sp?) and my bottom half of my mouth is numb from novacaine. I feel a little "off" to say the least. I was just trying to tell h4h that he needs to do what he feels is right. If he feels fighting for his marriage the way he is doing it, then he should...he knows best. If he is getting nowhere he may just start doing the "last resort techniques" described in the book. Does that make sense? I hope so!
By the way, I wasn't going to give H full custody...I thought we should have equal custody because my son needs his dad as much as me and if we couldn't make it, that wasn't my son's fault.
H4h, have you thought about what she thinks you lack and worked on that? When people tell you to worry about yourself and detach I think some of it is just to make you more attractive to her. I know right now I am telling my H to do some more things that make him happy. When he does this he becomes more interesting, happier, and thus more attractive to me. Does this make sense?
