He SHOULD be scared of what he is losing. Heck...he is losing me, which is the best thing that could have happened to him, he is losing his house, his security, everything he is used to for what??? For nothing.....for a woman who won't be around forever, who has the exact same low paying job that he has, 2 children to care for, no home etc etc. This is by far the dumbest thing he has ever done in his life and I hope it is scaring him to no end.

I know that there will be a day when he is going to wake up and realize what he has done. That he could have been in a good marriage and had the American dream of a life but he decided to throw that all away. And he will see me with someone else living out the life that he could have had and he will just kick himself over it.

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08