Update:

I havent posted in a few days and was tied up with kid items. On Friday my W hit with "all my friends at church dont talk to to me anymore" and showed alot of anger that , for once, was not directed at me. Her friends at church probably disagree with her actions at are keeping thier distance. I did not speak with them. She has been surfing Religious sites and going to Religious bookstores looking for justification for the D. I hope that she seeks out help from the pastor. I know where he and God stand.
The anger level continues to be very low. Things are better.