[color:#000099] By now I guess I just need to do what I said I was going to do.
I think that's right.
I'm sorry about the crap with your D. I'm sure a lot of it is his insecurity, and the stress he has put on himself. But that doesn't excuse being a jerk! But, I'm not sure it is him, either.
Do what you need to do Amy, just do it calmly, and for the right reasons.
