Twin, I agree with what you say...I think the work does come from that last need in them...the things WE have to work at...that does not come naturally...the compromise, perhaps?
That book sounds interesting!
V
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
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