LOL way off on the hair thing but whatever. With me going semi-dark, meaning I do not initiate the contact unless it has to do with the kids, or I do not answer all of her calls she gets mad. Like this morning she called and said that I might want to start answering my phone in case daycare were to call about my son, duh that is what caller ID is for And she continued on about it and I said ok and she responded with a nasty thanks and hung up! I can see that it bothers her but just hope that it is not the wrong signal.
Everytime I see her now I am always as upbeat as possible. The other day I had to drop off my sons lunchbox and I was all giddy and went in and was saying hi to everyone and the such. She again offered me to sit down and eat before I went to work. Sometimes I wish I could read her mind and figure what she has going on upstairs!
And she continued on about it and I said ok and she responded with a nasty thanks and hung up! I can see that it bothers her but just hope that it is not the wrong signal.