OMG, YES! And it was my parents that recommended that I see it.

they told me that LL is losing the 80% and they feel that by the time he 'man's up'...he will only have the 20% waiting for him...he will lose the best part of his life.

Seems so true right now...bleh.

He is in his own little world and I am GAL...and getting closer to God and letting him go, little by little...wondering if he will ever come back...

However, I must confess, I wonder about his return less and less and am having a great time in the meanwhile!!! I have gotten very used to my freedom and not having to deal with his drama (or hardly any of it) and it very liberating.

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller