I don't know what check it out means. I guess it means he'll open the document? But, the question is, will he look at it with an open mind? Because if he won't, I'd rather him just ignore the whole thing. The whole little bits of hope drive me up the wall too.

LMG, I'll tell him your needs. Maybe he'll listen to yours? ;\)

Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.