You bring up a topic that really hits close to home for me John. I do still struggle with how my H treated me when he was at his worst.. he was a complete stranger.. but I know that I will get beyond that at some point.. I think I've already made some progress with that. What I continue to struggle with is how my H hurt our D2. I know she's young (and younger than your kids Woog or your D John) but my thoughts are that these children are brought into this world and as their parents its our jobs to protect them... and yet our spouses are the ones inflicting the pain. How do you forgive that?
