That's a tough one. How would splitting the money affect her? Will she be able to pay her bills? What will it do for you? I think since you both now have your own places, it might be the right thing to do. HOWEVER, it also might make divorce that much easier.
We've had that discussion lately. H thinks maybe we should legally seperate and split our money. I'm not sure the purpose of the legal seperation though.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."