I completely relate! My husband's job totally changed him as well. Once he became a cop, he treated me like a suspect. He became very mean, and cruel to me. It was like he had such superiority at work, that had to come with that as well. So, I know when you say you don't want this man back, but you want to carefree man you fell in love with. Me too. I just don't know how to get that man to come back...if it's possible.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."