I also agree with what Dimitri has to say. Just think of how you had no choice but to go on while picking up the pieces, and you did it solo. These ex's have had someone waiting in the wings to transition them on to a new life. Meanwhile back on the home front, we may struggle but we find out who we are and what we're made of, but especially what it is that we want out of life and a partner. The wa's haven't taken the time to do any of that. Now who would you say will be better equipped for a future relationship?
The job thing is just a temporary inconvenience. I honestly believe that everything we are faced with is there to teach us and make us the people that we were meant to be. It's all just a matter of time!
