Hey Sara. Just checking in today. Redecorating the house sounds like an awesome plan.

I like Puppy's idea of voice activated recorders, but will 'getting something on him' make any difference in your situation? I just don't want you to hear something that affects you in a negative way. You've been through way too much as it is.

xo,


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence