Hey Sara. Just checking in today. Redecorating the house sounds like an awesome plan.
I like Puppy's idea of voice activated recorders, but will 'getting something on him' make any difference in your situation? I just don't want you to hear something that affects you in a negative way. You've been through way too much as it is.
xo,
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence