Hope4us struggle, part 4

[Hope4us]

Oh no. NEVER tell them you're going to do it if you decide to. It would just give them a chance to spin it to anyone who'll listen.

I had told her a number of times that I would eventually tell the kids and all it did was make her change her tactics, but when I finally told them, I didn't give her any warning and one day later is when she claims she told OM no more contact. And she seems to be keeping her word, but I guess I'll never know for sure. But it seems she has, at least.

The "yeah, well, I had ENDED IT ANYWAY!" thing is just SUCH classic script, LOL. My wife said the same thing!!! What a crock -- I had JUST seen "I love you so much" and "No one ever did it for me the way you do" TMs on her cellphone, just 3 days before!!

Puppy

Exactly Pup. After I exposed to the kids and their disapproval caused her to (seemingly) end it she told me in an email that "you can believe what ever you want, but I haven't seen OM since last year and have no intention of seeing him in the future". And this was one week after seeing some TM's between WW and the enabler GF that said "what was his excuse for not coming up yesterday" and WW replying "his wife has an appointment with an attorney and he doesn't want to add fuel to the fire". Yeah....They can't even admit the truth when it's staring them in the face. That's the amazing thing.