I don't know that we're ever completely over it, especially when we have children with someone. The pain does seem to dull with time but the hurt? Nope I just think it's something we learn to live with almost like the death of someone we loved. Afterall that really is what it's like.
Moving on is a big step. We all want to do it so badly and we all know that it's no easy road. You do sound so good and I'm really happy for you!