For the Guy with Kids and a WW4

[hopeful4her]

My very first post on here, that morning, I had told WW that if she couldn't end her A, then we could no longer be friends.

I have obviously back pedaled. I have had to sort through so many things since that day.

So many different stories. Some of success and some not successful. Puppy's technique worked for him. It may not work for others. Depends on the spouse, I suppose.

The guy that I read about over on Separating. He totally maintained his friendship and now has reconciled with his wife because of it.

Perhaps, a mixture of both.

wdid saw her husband making changes. She felt too much pressure from OM. She did not want to be a part time mom, but initially was going to let her husband have custody. Mine is not thinking that way. WW sees the changes in me, but can just criticize. "Oh sure, NOW you make the changes! We had to go through this for that to happen." I see the way she criticizes S14 father. Same thing. "NOW he wants to do this or that or the other. NOW S14 just thinks the world of him. Where was he before?" That is my WW.

Unfortunatly for me, my love for my wife has no conditions on it. "I can or will love you if you do this...."

I love her unconditionally.

To a fault.