I kind of feel that right now you are walking on a fence. To romance but not pursue; to go dark yet be her friend.
I'm a little psychic sometimes and I'm getting an image. Tell me if it has anything to do with you; the woman has short light brown hair with bangs. Kind of looks like a bowl cut.
Anyway, I don't know about your W's hair but the feeling I'm getting is that she is definitely still open to things working out through communication.
