Hmmmm, interesting that he was noticing the CEO guy! There must be some meaning there, you think?
So, does the second bit mean he won't be talking about all the "marriage" stuff? That almost makes it sound like he wrote that part for himself? What do you think?
I think the first sentence and that it's so bald and right there suggests he was a bit worried about CEO. Hopefully he feels reassured now that he sees he's old (or older than H, anyway- 10 years). I'm still smiling about that bit. How funny!!
Jeff- I'm not sure about the speech. That he's doing the first part does indicate he won't be talking about the marriage stuff, but he and BIL wwrote it together. I commented in my reply that the second half was really nice, but not that funny as it's more about marriage in general. I think he's responding to that. What do you think?
And I wish you'd come over here and tango with me- Argentinian Tango. So passionate......
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
Hard to say abou the speech. It depends so much on the relationships of all the people involved that it is impossible to say much from here! But, I think that he helped write, or read the "marriage" stuff at least had to make him think. I mean, despite the fact that he shows no evidence of having a working brain cell in his head, I have to assume he is at least somewhat aware!
The CEO isn't the only guy older than your H! I know one with two left feet! I'd need lots of help to Tango. Close up and personal....
The speech- yes, H would have contributed to the marriage stuff, definitely. I hope it did make him think, even if it hasn't resulted in any visible changes.
Close up and personal...... hmmmmm mmmm mmmmm. My hearts beating a bit faster just thinking about it! I might need some CPR over here
Hi OD! I've just caught up your latest - and I wanted to remind you how absolutely jealous I am!! I know it must be hard and frustrating for you (two steps forward, one step sideways!) but from where I'm sitting I would love to have an email message where H signed it Love H.
I'm having a crapper of a day - not sure what I'm doing or thinking about H. Could you impart your wisdom on my situation. Obviously I'm not as detached as I thought otherwise it wouldnt hurt so much....
Wow, men are so transparent (sorry Jeff!) I cant believe his audacity, he has an egglplant, yet he cant help himself sneaking a little comment in as his opening gambit, about your CEO. Wow. I wonder if he looked at that email and thought that was odd, but though, nope I'll leave it in.. huh, CEO isnt as gorg' as me, hes WAY older ! Yeah, I reckon he WAS worried about the CEO all along (but is maybe now not so worried, damn!)
And why on earth was your CEO rude to him??? I reckon he was jealous too ! Too funny.
Its great he asked for help on the best mans speech, but yes, possibly a little insensitive of him !?? Maybe his email should have read...
Here...my ditched wife, please comment on this heartfelt speech I have just written about love and marriage and commitment. PS: I didnt tell the aubergine that I emailed you about this and signed it Love H with kisses.
Love H xxx
Ok, I'm kidding, but honestly! My BF has been similiarly insensitive over the months, like moaning about money (hello? You promised to support me at college like I did for you !?) and how he was upset that his friend didnt reply to his emails (at a time he didnt always respond to mine). Its a good thing definetly that he asked for you help, he is still involving you in his life, its like the CV/interview thing isnt it.
I wish I knew what to suggest to you to help move things along. Maybe these nights away you have planned will shake things up a bit. If he is still with the PP, she cant be thrilled about it? Maybe she will act up and he will finally get sick of her...
OK, tired now and waffling, but well done for staying patient, you have been amazingly strong through all this,
Ali xxxxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
