Most relationships thrive or die on communication. Unmet expectations, are the fault of the person who did not expressly voice their expectations.
"soon" is subjective. To one person it could be 2 minutes. To another it cold be months.
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I hugged him and he promised me that he was going to think about it and he would talk with me soon. I know he will.
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which I actually think he would let be the case.
Which one is it?
Amy,
You can go in there with your guns blazing, laying down the law Wyatt Erp style, or you can go in there like you did in the above post where you actually talked and communicated, and let him know expressly how you feel, that soon is a little too vauge, that you have a deadline in mind. Because not having his answer, or thoughts before that deadline, is your answer.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
