Thanks for the post. I see that your sitch it was exposure each time that at least had the A dwindling. I have not gone down that road, but I may need to. If nothing else, I may need to reconsider the "agreement" where I said I would keep this quiet.
When you exposed to kids / OMW, did you give WW any "warning" this might happen?
Lost,
If and when someone makes the difficult decision to expose, they should never give any warning to the wayward spouse. It will only enable them to pre-defend and "spin" it, saying "You're going to be hearing all kinds of crazy things from Bill; he's really gone nuts!" and such.
