I know I don't know you as well as some of the others around here, but I have been following your story in my short time here and hoping you get a positive answer.
Perhaps one thing that might bring it to a head would be to just do what you said you were going to do.
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We talked of dating others. Neither of us really can imagine that. I told him the biggest obstacle I could foresee in a new relationship would be that I'm not willing to change one thing about my relationship with him. I won't stop coming over and hanging out and surely someone else would not like me being with him so much.
I don't know how often you would typically go over there and hang out, but perhaps that would be a good thing to do. He seems to have reacted positively to you being there from some of your other posts. If you have been over there a lot he might be confused by your absense. If you do go over there you may not get an answer in words but you may get one in actions.
Just the ramblings of someone very inexperienced at this whole "game" but maybe there is some value in this perception.
Best wishes
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
Most relationships thrive or die on communication. Unmet expectations, are the fault of the person who did not expressly voice their expectations.
"soon" is subjective. To one person it could be 2 minutes. To another it cold be months.
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I hugged him and he promised me that he was going to think about it and he would talk with me soon. I know he will.
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which I actually think he would let be the case.
Which one is it?
Amy,
You can go in there with your guns blazing, laying down the law Wyatt Erp style, or you can go in there like you did in the above post where you actually talked and communicated, and let him know expressly how you feel, that soon is a little too vauge, that you have a deadline in mind. Because not having his answer, or thoughts before that deadline, is your answer.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
You can go in there with your guns blazing, laying down the law Wyatt Erp style, or you can go in there like you did in the above post where you actually talked and communicated, and let him know expressly how you feel, that soon is a little too vauge, that you have a deadline in mind. Because not having his answer, or thoughts before that deadline, is your answer.
Jack, going back and bringing it up again is something I CAN NOT DO. It was hard enough the first time - no, wait - the first half a friggin dozen times I sucked it all up - I CAN'T do it again.
