He DOES know about the house issue, right?

Or is he really just in denial about it, like you say.

It's ok to feel like things didn't go that well. It sounds like it was at least ok. You probably had built it up, of course. It's good that he apologized to you.

It is so hard to not be able to voice concerns or issues that you think may be important but may make you look like the villain in your spouses eyes. Like biting your tongue just not to hurt thier feelings, because your afraid of going back to square one.

I think that is what they mean by walking on eggshells.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."