"If you are considering trying to save your marriage when your partner is unwilling to end the affair, you can count on receiving lots of advice from people who know about the situation. They will undoubtedly tell you to stop being a doormat and go on with your life. You need to be the one who calls the shots on this one. This is, after all, your life. YOu need to decide how you want to hangle it. Trust your instincts. Don't let anyone else tell you what to do. If you're not ready to give up on your marriage, keep fighting."
"Fighting for your marriage under those circumstances takes courage, stamina, and blind determination." Page 214-215 in Divorce Remedy.
I assume you are on the "last resort technique". Hopefully, you will never have to do the "after the last resort technique."
