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K- you're testing me by requesting no comments on feeling stiff! But I'll refrain!

So, I just got back from lunch with H. He looked gorgeous today- really fantastic. I don't think I've seen him look so good for oveer a year. Hug and kiss on cheek hello (it was a close hug, which was nice). We walked to the restaurant and had a nice table. Talked, sat and mirrored each other. it was nice. There was some nice eye contact, although not flirty particularly, just friendly. Discussion was around what I did at the weekend, what he did (wedding rehearsals) and then plans for the coming weekend. Specific things he mentioned

- last weekend he spent most of the time with BIL. Augergine wasn't there
- next weekend he's going to a wedding near MIL/FILs house on Saturday (no aubergine again)
- all evenings this week seem non-aubergine contaminated from what I can tell
- when discussing weddings, at one point H nearly referred to 'our wedding' but then checked himself. He also spoke about how it was easier to write his groom's speech and make it funny than it was to write the best man's speech for the wedding this Friday (cousin's). We laughed a little about the jokes he made in his speech. Nice

Then we left the restaurant. I brought him up to the office and introduced him to my colleagues. They were a bit cold towards him, but CEO was a bit rude, I thought. Stupid CEO. And then H left. We hugged goodbye quite closely (nice). The he kind of laughed and gave me a kiss on the cheek, and I went.

Since getting back to me desk, H has sent me an e-mail saying

Hi OD,

Thanks very much for lunch. The green curry was delicious and it was very nice to see you. Have attached the speech for you to check out. Still needs a little work but at least you can say whether it is funny and add any other comments.

Love H xx


So I'm commenting on the best man's speech (I said I'd like to have a look). I'm a bit worried about this wedding on Saturday that he's going to. We were both invited, but now he's going alone. maybe he's going to tell all of them that we split up or somethng. How depressing. Still, a few positives, and I didn't initiate any R talks so pleased with myself about that. And I managed not to mention the aubergine.

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Good Job Lisa (again!!).

I hope you still have some patience. You are so close I am always reading your posts fast the first time to see if he finally said the words (or done the act ;\) )...

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(((((Lisa)))))

That sounds really good!

I was going to say that his email might have been short because he was in a hurry! But, it is a moot point by now! I need to get up earlier!

You are doing well, he's still a ninny, but try not to panic!

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(((K))) (((Jeff-man)))

It was a nice lunch a couple of people from the office mentioned how my H is such a handsome man, so that was nice.

I read the best man speech and there's lots of stuff in there at the end about what makes a good marriage and about being committed. It made me quite mad- like how can he write that stuff and not think of his own actions in relation to it?!
I'm wonder too if I AM running out of patience. I find myself thinking 'what is the problem?!! How much longer?' I guess the answer is just for as long as it takes. He looked so hot today (I told him he did too). I just wanted to leaap on him and rip his kit off!

OK, rant over. Jeff, my lovely, I know you had to sleep in after me keeping you up all night with mouth to mouth ;\)

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I read the best man speech and there's lots of stuff in there at the end about what makes a good marriage and about being committed. It made me quite mad- like how can he write that stuff and not think of his own actions in relation to it?!
Maybe he is thinking about it...maybe that's one reason he wanted you to read it!

(((Lisa))) There are a TON of positives happening, don't give up.


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((((Michelle)))) Maybe (I wish)! I ASS-U-ME too much. ;\)

I hope this is what H is thinking!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=txtq29e7KQo&feature=related

How are you?

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I like the song. Good choice. \:\)

Got my new thread set up finally. :-)

Slept on the couch last night, slept good. Woke up early actually so I went grocery shopping before work lol.


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Hurray! Both for the new thread and for liking the song. Gary Barlow (their lead singer- such an English name!) has an awesome voice- I love it!!

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That is a VERY English name lol. Good stuff.

This is the jazz-ish guy, Levi Thomas Huffman, that I bought his CD recently. He's playing at the place where I bought his CD actually - http://youtube.com/watch?v=MyR70P9uAYM


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Very mellow Miss LT!

I just got this message from H. The first sentence is interesting...

Hi OD,

That CEO guy looked much older than I thought he was going to look.

Thanks for the comments about the speech. Glad you liked it. I think I will do the beginning bit cause it's got most of the best jokes in.

You have fun at Tango tonight. I couldn't open that file you sent me about tomorrow. Could you resend it to me as a word 2003 document cause our crappy computers are still on that.

Love H xx


I'll wait until tomorrow morning to reply. (PS. LMAO! \:D \:\) )

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