Just wanted to send him a note on a motorcycle ride that friends are doing in a few weekends. He had said earlier that he'd love to go riding with my friends as they had both asked him, via me, to join them.

But I didn't. I'm dark.

And I'm tentatively making plans with the girls to see a Chihuly exhibit in SF for the weekend of Retro since I probably won't be busy. I think it would be good to have something planned so I can't just sit there mourning my relationship. Ironically, it's the girls from my H's work. His bosses' wife, a former co-worker and two other spouses' wives.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.