Guys,

Keep those pictures close by....I can't believe your Ws will let two outstanding (husbands and fathers) like you get away.
It is their loss if they do and you guys will make someone else happy I am sure.

Woog, stay positive (where have I heard that before). From what I have read here, you have done everything a man can do to have a happy home. You are probably not perfect but then again, who is. This probably does you very little good right now but one day, your W will realize how much she effed up.

Whenever you are ready to share more of your feelings, there are a bunch of us ready to listen without making any judgements.