He needs to have interests on his own to be interesting to me.
This one trouble's me a bit...because i have had that one thrown at me too. I just don't know what to do with it.
I think Michele would encourage your H to go out more and relax a bit, try to enjoy himself. But right NOW while he's having flashbacks and such, this is a VERY tall order for him ok?
Also, I think Michele would ask what he does with his time that YOU dont' find interesting. My bet is she would also say that just because you dont find him interesting doens't mean he isn't intersting. In her video she madea point of finding out what your spouse likes, not asking your spouse to change their interests to something you like.
If he likes hockey, then that's interesting, whether you like hockey or not. lol
The two of you have to both try to make it work, and go easy on each other, getting demanding right now is going to set you back quite a bit. Go EASY on each other. He will grow, and he will become more interesting, but you can dig a bit too and find out what is already intereesting abouthim that you have maybe waved off?
Just don't expect your spouse to be your personal entertainer, particularly right now at such a delicate stage.
