Moved out Sunday...very upset.

[JennyB]

Last night I called him to fill him in on some financial/lawyer stuff pertaining to the house. We agreed to go more in depth with it this week. I tried to stay light and cheery with him, and I asked him how his first night at his place was. He said it was alright, and that he's getting his stuff organized. I just said that I would talk to him later...he said "thanks for the call..."

I guess, a non-eventful converstaion, but not a negative one. The weird thing now is, every time I see him, it will either be on his or my turf, no longer our turf...weird feeling.

Next time I talk to him I'll let him know if he needs help with anything, I'm there. I just don't want to continue with the whole doormat thing, I'm fearful of putting myself out there.

People around me are all saying I have to cut everything off with him. Then I go on this site, and it looks like I should be doing the opposite. I'm very confused.