Hey, I'm really sorry to hear what you are going through. I'm in the process of going dark at the moment and it is really difficult going against your instincts which are screaming out to fix this. Michelle says that doing nothing isn't doing nothing - I am trying to hold on to that and to the fact that when I actively tried to get my husband to change he retreated into work more.
mkultra mentioned some Dr Ellen Cds earlier in the thread. Does anyone have any further info on these at all?
I'm fairly new to posting here and I have to say I have found it a real help.
