Remember, two steps forward, one step back. I think the trick is to remember the forward steps when you're unhappy about the back.
Some good advice.
I don't think there is anyone here who would look down upon you for fighting for your marriage through two affairs and deciding enough is enough when the third happened. I would be willing to bet your sons would feel the same way if they know the whole truth.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning