Mishka, I havent read that book but have heard good things about it. I like the Conway's since they write with supporting scripture.
I am very sorry to hear that your husband has so much pain from what he has experienced and the challenge of ADHD as well. The meds should help his mind focus better if they get him on the right ones and the right dosage levels. Depending on the type, his side effects can be different (amphetamine, SSRI, etc).
Stay close to Him. He can see you and your family through this.
Many people in this world have a faith problem. I am not saying you do but admitting that I did and frequently I lose faith. There is a lot of scripture that says simply, have faith and never lose it. Faith can literally move mountains. The opposite of faith is doubt.
If more people had unshakeable faith, would we see a different world? Would the doubt that a marriage can be restored be replaced with doubt that a marriage can't be restored?
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God