Just wondering if were still free for lunch or coffee today. I have a meeting from 11 for half an hour but am free all afternoon so could meet up after that.
Love H xx
I replied saying that I was pretty free all day so would leave it to him to choose. I really feel like I'm taking retrograde steps here. I haven't had a short to the point e-mail like this from him for 6 months or more. Do you think this could be withdrawal stage of MLC anyone? I guess that would be progrss if it was. And I'd feel a bit better about it too then.
Yes I think this could be the withdrawal stage. Listen, what he has been doing and the way he is acting is not a mystery. If we changed places and I was in your shoes, what would you tell me?
He is clearly trying to make a decision even if he hasn't told you he is in the process ("I will sort this out"). That's why he needs time alone to sort this thing with the veg and then get the nerve to come to you and tell you he loves so much and he has been such a d&ckhead and regrets hurting you.
I feel that you being as warm and fuzzy and inviting (not pursuing) would help him to make the move faster(the zipper would help too).
I wonder if you will go to these weekends as couple or as "couple to be"... Love K
You're right- I know I'm being a bit neurotic about this, but really feeel glad you agree about the withdrawal stage. It occurred to me this weekend that it could be that so I should just get on with it and keep being friendly and nice. It really helps to have independent confirmation!
I don't mind about the weekends as couple or couple to be you know. As long as I don't have to take batteries with me!
My days is OK. My boss is away so I have time to just relax and catch up on some things...
H called in the morning. He was on his way to the airport to get to his final destination. His usual self, "checking with base" before getting on a plane... I was Ok too. I could "hear myself" a bit "stiff" (OK please NO COMMENTS), but I think he didn't... K
Hey Lisa, good luck at lunch... you havent seen him since Full on Friday, right? I hope it goes well and he does a little flirt with you, but yes, he could be in a withdrawal stage and be a bit more reserved, so dont panic.
Thinking of you! Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread