Well, it's very strange, but my stbx is now back with her 1st H after 20 years of D. Apparently, he has been pursuing her for the last 2 years when he heard we had split up. She finally gave him the nod after the OM was turned down for parol and I passed on her attempt at reconciliation. Of course, he doesn't know he's third in the line up behind the inmate and myself, but that's not my concern.
She's been surprisingly honest about this one to me and I'm not sure why. Even to the point she made sure I knew she had sex with him even though I was not interested in knowing that. The way she talks about him leads me to believe he's a temporarily fix for her until OM's parole comes up in another 2 years. I asked her if he knew about OM #1 and she angrily told me no and that there was no reason for him to know. I actually feel sorry for the both of them if their relationship survives the next two years. She may hurt this OM #2 like she did me when OM #1 comes back into the picture. I really think this guy would walk through fire for her, so I do feel sorry for him in a strange sort of way.
I'm not sure why I care to journal accept for the fact that my situation is so incredibly unbelievable. I don't think the most creative story writer could come up with something like this. First comes OM #1 from 15 years ago who happens to be in prison for murder and then comes OM #2 (Husband #1) from 20 years ago. Talk about your walk down memory lane! What's next, her elementary school crush?
As for myself, I'm doing well and really enjoying new experiences in my life. Making many new friends and having fun with my two Sons.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
