A couple of months?! YIKES. lol I have to admit that I am feeling a little pressed for time because he graduates at the end of July and we clear the house the first week of August. I have to start making plans and am not really sure what to do. **big sigh**
Totally see the wisdom in no R talks. Thankfully, I have you guys and my counselor to talk to. I haven't been doing too badly about the R talks (when he was here for the baby's bday, I was good....:-)...does that count for something? please, oh please. lol) But it was those dang letters and cutesy cards and his whole "knight in shining armor" attitude towards me that really got to me. I almost called him yesterday and said, "Baby, what is it going to take to keep our family together? Just tell me and I'll do it". But I took the advice from DR and waited. And I'm so glad I did. Even if he WANTED TO get back together, there are still some serious issues to resolve.. for both of us.