Richie, sorry I am late to todays fricasse... I like my Richie well done thank you and I believe AmyC has cooked your asss pretty well today
Look dude, here's what I will say to you right now. When we spoke last night I heard two different BF's, I heard one that was clear and concise when you spoke of your faith in her and yourself, and then I heard one full of fear as you spoke of not knowing what to do, can't understand how quickly this turned.
Yet, in the midst of all of this you hit one very huge point that I am not sure you are remembering today. You mentioned that you were aware that this moved very fast. You said maybe this is God's way of slowing YOU down. You spoke of your strength in faith. Not for nothing, but that is exactly where your mind needs to be today.
You need to find within yourself the strength to believe that something greater than yourself is controlling this situation and that you have to let go. You have zero control of any of this. There is nothing...did you get that word... NOTHING that you can do right now that will help your situation except to put it in God's hands and allow him to show you the path.
Right now your posts sound like a person who is doubting their faith. Unable to trust that what is occurring in their life is occurring for a reason. One that you yourself verbalized last night. "Maybe this is God's way of slowing me down". What a great epiphany, however if you have an epiphany, and then choose to ignore it, the big guy tends to get a little pissed and show you what he thinks when you don't have faith in him.
Amy is telling you to DB, she is telling you to WALK THE TALK.... Do you get what she is saying to you? This is not a special situation where it is not necessary to do what you have learned to do when dealing with relationships. How do you feel when you are reading in Newcomers and you hear one of them post that their situation is different....unique.....special... and the things that everyone else are doing do not work in their situation. It drives me fricken nuts because DBing is not about situational circumstances, it is about communication and life style.
Man up doesnt necessarily mean be a man, it may in fact mean be the man that we all know you are....understand?
You have a great head on your shoulders Richie, now quit fukkin around and use it please......... There are a lot of us here who have a great deal of faith in you, maybe you should to.
There are a lot of us here who have a great deal of faith in you, maybe you should to. 