HiC -

So true. I am fighting for the marriage I want, not the marriage I had. I am fighting for the woman I fell in love with, not the woman I see now. If I was faced with the choice of having my old marriage, it would be hard for me say no; but I would. If my wife wanted back and to take her as she is right now, I would say no. Both would be hard; but I want a new wonderful marriage and someone else who will make it their priority after God.

I will continue to give this everything I got. Until then, I expect you to do the same. I BELIEVE in you HiC. You can do this, if I can. I am sending you lots of godly love your way. Take care beautiful! (Just a compliment to let you know how much your PMA means to me!) \:\)


Me: 33 W: 27
M7 1/2, S4, D1
Received papers: 2/13/08

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