Of course you understand that the DBB is for YOU, eh ? Not for her.. which, of course, you should be about now as there is nothing you can do to change her at the moment, right ?.. It is all about YOU here !.. Whatever will happen with her will come from her.
So I think it would be wise to avoid conversations that include the F word and also the OM (sorry about the name thingy), moving, etc.. YOU need to stop worrying about her.. She is who she is.. and you are YOU ! Get back to h4h.. the guy you were before this R... the guy you know like h3ll and trust and love ! Find him. .. and yes it would have been the best thing if you had just left with the kids and gone on with your intended plans yesterday, I think ?
The thing is if you cant control your own emotions and let them control you.. well.. then other people can control them also, eh ?
