Thank you LWB, you have brought tears to my eyes because I want to hope so badly. I know he is terrified that they will go back to the way they were, he has said so. I want to give him all of the space in the world so that he can heal and get his head on straight. It's the OW that makes me so terrified. I think his "working on himself" is code for "lets see how it goes with OW". <Sigh> I can only focus on my happiness so that no matter what I am in a better place, with or without him. Still , I would prefer it to be with him.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008