Thank you LWB, you have brought tears to my eyes because I want to hope so badly. I know he is terrified that they will go back to the way they were, he has said so. I want to give him all of the space in the world so that he can heal and get his head on straight. It's the OW that makes me so terrified. I think his "working on himself" is code for "lets see how it goes with OW". <Sigh> I can only focus on my happiness so that no matter what I am in a better place, with or without him. Still , I would prefer it to be with him.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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