I do that, too OC.. Anyone who is talking on their cell phone in a secluded spot MUST be having an A!!
My stbx has definately shown that he has moved on and is darn happy with his new family. So happy that he and ow had a family party at her house!!!!! The D is not even final and H's family is so obviously FINE with it all... What is wrong with these people??? Have they no loyalty? Do they not know right from wrong?!
On the other side is my getting crazier every day Mother. I try to calmly explain to her the D process and that you have to negotiate stuff... You don't end up with everything you want but have to pick your battles. She thinks that H is such a horrible father (for reason that aren't even true) and that he should rarely get to see his own D! I swear sometimes I am sitting in the middle of this strange pi$$ing match between my Mom and stbxh.