Thank you everyone for your support. I know this is the Divorce Busting site and none of us want to move forward toward divorce, but there comes a time when that is the only best thing to do. I think I am going to keep posting in this forum however. The affair is still the root of everything and I think I belong here.
The whole shirt thing is cracking me up as well. I know he is wearing them because I took all of his clothes and moved them out to the garage (too lazy to get his clothes)& he hasnt' done any laundry in 3 weeks and is running out of clothes. The shirts he is wearing are just Tshirts that a man or a woman would wear. I actually think the one he was wearing today I bought in the men's department. But still...he is wearnig my clothes! That is so strange!
The car (like the house) is in both of our names. But since I am the only responsible one, I am paying for it every month. We have always thought of this car as "his" car and I have rarely drove it. I dont want the dumb smelly thing (he smokes in there...puh!) I have my own car, which has been mine since 1995. It is totally in my name and has less milage on it than his 2004 car. The theory of him allowing OW to drive the car that I pay for 100% just gets under my skin.
What do you all think of this? I am going on a trip to Disney at the beginning of July. I will be gone for 10 days total. My Dad says that I should pack up my Precious Moments collection and anything else breakable, my computer and a few other things and store them at his house while I am gone. He is concerned that H and OW will come and break/steal my things.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08