(((Sara))) Your H is just being childish and there is nothing you can do about it.

I'm glad that you spoke to your pastor and you can move forward with a clear conscience spiritually. I'm so sorry it has come to this, but you need to protect and take care of you from now on. H is a big boy and will just have to fend for himself. He has made his bed, as much as it hurts now he has to lay in it.

I believe the reality of the paperwork will scare him, but tread very lightly before jumping back in with him.

We are here for you no matter what. ((((SARA)))))

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option