lol, yep, he'll be workin' this winter! but I'll shovel with him...but boy it will be nice not to be on my own. although I did wrangle that friend's husband into plowing most of last winter...woo-hooo!
its funny, sara, but after I found out about the affair there was an article I read somewhere or other that had to do with signs of infidelity. they weren't the normal ones you think of (working late, mysterious calls, etc), they were things like, "spouse stops caring about the house/taking care of the home stuff they used to." I thought that was interesting, because h has never been an enthusastic yard-work-guy, but he always got it done w/o complaint, and used to go nuts cleaning out the garage and such. and that did all stop right around when the affair started, probably before. it was really weird at the time.
the best was tonight, though. we were outside playing with the kids and he was talking about spending some time this weekend cleaning out the garage and the shed.
see, its the little things like that that make me smile.
and yay to redecorating!
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