On The Rollercoaster Ride!

[addie]

Hi Kalni and Nlt, thanks so much for posting.

I was feeling pretty angry at what H told me last night about OW until I read your posts today and then I softened, called H and told him not to spend any more time or energy worrying about getting revenge or even thinking about OW - that sort of person is NOT worth it. He needs to focus on healing himself first, spending lost time with S and focus on repairing our M. He is not as distant today but I know it will continue to be a rollercoaster.
My H had solid moral values and is now dealing with a tremendous amount of guilt, remorse and anger about what he has done.