I'm thinking about not replying because he has not indicated that he wants MC. Maybe staying dark will take the pressure off him to make a better decision. What you guys think?
I agree with that, too. Your H sounds like he is maybe confused and wanting some time/space? You know I guess the theory is if you don't pursue and stay dark, then it's like a seesaw or something, and your H will hopefully focus more on trying to make your R work. So I agree with not replying, plus what would your reply be to that anyway? He is basically asking for a little time to think which sounds good, plus the other positive stuff that he mentioned like he has noticed your changes and is considering how that will affect your R, etc. But anyway, it sounds like whatever you are doing is working positively so I would keep up all the good work too! Karen
Karen
