Real live is....part 4!

[Starshyne]

Since school is out and I am not working, I came home to find H (wearing another one of my tshirts) reading. He refuses to talk to me at all and won't even move out of my way. I try to talk to him (about some "business type things...nothing about the R or anything super serious...just money and things) and he won't answer. What a child!

I met with the pastor today. He was so understand and supportive. God bless that man. He told me that he rarely advises divorce, but he thinks in my situation it will be the only way my H will come to his senses. He told me that he can see that I have tried all I could to make this marriage work and that this is the last resort for me. He told me that I had courage. He reminded me that Jesus even said that divorce due to marital unfaithfulness was permissiable and that the he and the members of the church will not look down upon me for this decision (that was a concern of mine). He prayed with me told me that the church will help me in any way that they can. I am so glad that I talked to him because hearing this all has helped.

Oh...he also said something that many of you told me. That once the D is final, I should expect my H to come back. He said that he will be missing everything he had with me....the house, the car, the stability. And to be careful. He said that if I believe that my H has really repented, to move slowly back into dating and see what happens from there.

So...I am moving ahead with the lawyer. Once I get the money situation taken care of, I am going into the office to get the papers started.

Sara