Real live is....part 4!

[Starshyne]

Alright...for those of you keeping score, here is the outline of my sitch.

On Christmas Eve I started suppecting H had OW. On Jan 2, he told me that he did that he valued their friendship "as much as our marriage." The months of January-February were him spending part time with her and part time with me. I had it, told him so and he came back to me. Lived with me and didn't see OW all of March and most of April. Mid-April he is back with OW.

Here is where things got crazy. H was spending almost all night with OW and coming in whenever he felt like it. The day he came home at 5am to do his laundry was the last straw. I locked him out of the house. For a week and a half he was gone and I was starting to feel better. He said that he got a run down apartment. Then suddenly he changes his mind and says he broke his contract with the apartment and wants to stop it with the OW and be with me. Then the next day OW comes to my door to "kick H's a&&" but when H came driving in suddenly his love for her was declared.

H refuses to leave our home (yes his name is on the title). The police are called, he refuses to leave. Sees nothing wrong with being with girlfriend and then sleeping at marriage home. So as it stands now, H goes to work, goes to school, goes to OW's and at 11pm (or whenever) comes to our home to sleep and shower. I make sure that I am out of the house (sleeping at parents) by 11pm each night because I refuse to stay under the same roof as H while he is opening having an affair.

I have talked to a lawyer. I am working on a settlement so that H gets his half of the house and we will be divorced.

I think that covers everything up until today....